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Unread post by jammy » Thu Sep 05, 2013 3:44 pm

room1day wrote:Whilst wasting time at work last week, browsing the Internet, I found myself
Looking at a swinging website. To be honest it was something never considered
Previously but hey ho time to kill , and 5 mins later low and behold, I'm an
Active member. What I found quite intrigued the old grey matter, on many different
Facets into the world of swingers. In many ways many facets work very well
For groups of certain ilks , but from what I can tell ( and please be aware I could
Actually be wrong as I personally had no interaction)
my summery is , that if you join one of these sites as a single male, unless
You are of Afro-Caribbean decent or can claim to tickle the inside of a woman's
Ears whilst still having both feet on the bed room carpet, you stand about as much
Chance of success as you do to be invited into papal conclaves or knights of Columbus .

And thus with the conclusion drawn..thank fuck for HAF and all the lovely ladies how
Work from it...
You want to join a papal conclave? :twisted:

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Unread post by scotty » Thu Sep 05, 2013 4:21 pm

Shine one side and then see if u av better success...Works for Jimmy Anderson or is it just cos of the overcast conditions.. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
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Unread post by kinkypeeps » Fri Sep 06, 2013 5:32 am

Hi Roomy...

you'd be right to a point... but wrong by miles about guys that make a success out of swinging.. Its attitude & respect that get you laid. You fall into the category 'married guy just wants sex on the side' largely dismissed for starters because theres bloody thousands of you!. I met mrs Kinks on a swinging site, I had loads of success on there before I met her.. A top tip... go to socials... use the chat rooms and banter... talk to people with respect... do not ask for sex.. pays in spades! Does any guy listen? nope! Most single guys I know that get party invites are no oil paintings.. they just have the right attitude!

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Unread post by kinkypeeps » Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:57 am

Exactly roomy. In my view all swinging sites are largely over-run with men looking for a quick fuck behind the wives back so can't be deemed swingers...many still have the brass neck to constantly whinge and wine how crap the sites are because they can't get laid and are largely ignored by the general swinging population x

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Unread post by kinkypeeps » Fri Sep 06, 2013 12:18 pm

Good question... I have been in this lifestyle 12 years or so and I have never come across a single female that does it without her partners consent... however I have met 2 girls that were married to different partners but was on the scene with a regular fuck buddy.... both no longer active as I guess this type of relationship rarely lasts. Also point out that another major bugbear is married guys that sign up as a couple without their wives consent to get meets... these guys are pretty shameless but rarely lucky as 'oh sorry my wife fell sick on the way over so took her home decided not to let you down so I came alone' heard a lot of those tales from friends.... most are politely told to 'fuck off'

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Unread post by kinkypeeps » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:03 pm

I have on occasion mentioned haf especially when trying to up traffic.. to be honest most are indifferent, they just stick to the sites that are geared up to their lifestyle. I tried every which way I could to bring traffic here, but realised I was wasting my time. I was getting in trouble for trying to advertise an outside site, I guess they saw is as competitions.. without advertising, I really don't see much other traffic for other than what it was set up for.. I see the potential for growth in other areas.. but as it stands, swingers have their own sites as do the transgendered community.. people I have managed to get on board quickly moved on as there ain't much to be gained from it other than my own crazed scribblings as much as I tried to get some interaction. I however stay and visit everyday in the vain hope that others give me grist for the mill... plus I know some quite cool people on here, so I stay :)

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Unread post by kinkypeeps » Sat Sep 07, 2013 11:50 am

Its a shame for the site founder, I spoke to him reference advertising elsewhere, and explained my trouble bringing in hits from the relevant swingers/TV sites.. its a catch 22 for us, just too expensive for advertising.. even HDM proved not cost effective in the end. Although infrequent I'm always around to lend an ear to any relevant posts :)

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Unread post by sophie » Sat Sep 07, 2013 3:26 pm

kinkypeeps wrote: I however stay and visit everyday in the vain hope that others give me grist for the mill... plus I know some quite cool people on here, so I stay :)
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Unread post by sophie » Sat Sep 07, 2013 3:34 pm

room1day wrote:
sophie wrote:
kinkypeeps wrote: I however stay and visit everyday in the vain hope that others give me grist for the mill... plus I know some quite cool people on here, so I stay :)
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Soph... He didn't mean u :lol:
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Unread post by Alexander1 » Sat Sep 07, 2013 6:35 pm

sophie wrote:
room1day wrote:
sophie wrote:
kinkypeeps wrote: I however stay and visit everyday in the vain hope that others give me grist for the mill... plus I know some quite cool people on here, so I stay :)
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Soph... He didn't mean u :lol:
oh nooooo he meant you didn,t he :doh: :roll:
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Unread post by Ethen1982 » Sat Sep 07, 2013 7:07 pm

:text-goodpost: i enjoyed ur discussion and excellent points made guys :-) xx :text-goodpost:

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Unread post by Ethen1982 » Sat Sep 07, 2013 7:09 pm

:whistle: & gals :-)

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Unread post by Ethen1982 » Sat Sep 07, 2013 8:38 pm

haha i know, i just didnt wanna leave anyone out lol besides it smiles in all the right places, that in itself is worth the kudos :-)

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Unread post by sophie » Sun Sep 08, 2013 4:40 pm

creep away i don,t mind :lol:
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Unread post by CTR » Sun Sep 08, 2013 5:14 pm

sophie wrote:creep away i don,t mind :lol:
Think that's my job :) Actually I was going to post something here but Mr KP might have thought I was creeping towards him & get the wrong impression ... :shifty:

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Unread post by kinkypeeps » Mon Sep 09, 2013 10:28 am

I'm sure he'd say... Don't knock it till u try it[/quote]

I would actually say "finish that pink martini and come try on this for
size big boy.....oh don't mind her she's my photographer'

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Unread post by CTR » Mon Sep 09, 2013 4:59 pm

kinkypeeps wrote: I would actually say "finish that pink martini and come try on this for
size big boy.....oh don't mind her she's my photographer'
Actually I do have quite a big head - Xmas party hats never fit on :P

Oh, maybe that wasn't the right thing to post ... :shifty:
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Unread post by maria01 » Wed Jan 06, 2016 6:16 am

Today if you want to make a balance between your lives then it is important that you take some out for yourself. The life is full of so many tempting things

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room1day wrote:Reading back I realise .. Just how much I miss ctr :lol:
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