How common is bareback?

[CTR]

I know this is controversial & sensitive ... but as there's been a thread recently about an escort who offers bareback I thought I'd ask the q. How common is bareback among swingers particularly in the local area? As some punters & WGs are also swingers or doggers (is that the right word?) this is relevant to all of us here ...

kinkypeeps ?

[kinkypeeps]

Hi Civic

Interesting question! I'll try answer it as best as I can, theres a good few schools of thought on this one! Firstly I'll cover our own view on the subject. The Circles we move in we know a lot of people extremely well and we tend to stick with who we know, you get to know histories and habits and then I guess we make a personal choice as to wether we do or not or feel its safe or not. We never bareback with complete strangers or single guys we only just met. Me Personally, Mr KP, As strange as it sounds, I don't generally have full on sex with other women, theres just 2 girls we see regular that I will go the whole hog with as we know them extremely well and we all feel as safe as houses with each other. Most of the other stuff I do with others, is just a bit of fun, oral, hands on, lightweight stuff etc, I get more of a kick out of having an active imagination, theres soooo much horny stuff to do without committing to penetrative sex. Also, I'm absolutely hopeless with condoms, kills me stone dead, so I'm perfectly happy to do other stuff rather than use them

Mrs KP is basically the same, we have a few couple friends and 3 or 4 guys we know really well, over a period of a year or two...The guys we know and see regularly are married and not daft...they are less likely to take risks with strangers to protect their families than single guys without partners we feel.. Sometimes when Mrs KP is ready to mix it up a bit..condoms are always insisted upon. Another point to note, a larger percentage of us only play once in a while, you have to remember we are all not at it hammer and tongs every day of the week, just once in a while! whereas we see the necessity for working girls to stay protected..even with oral sex as the chances in that area of contacting an STD are a hundred fold

I'd say from experience and what we personally see, about 50 per cent always use them and 50 per cent don't, the ones that don't, we do tend to not get involved with sexually, we stick with what we know. As for oral sex....I've from all the stuff we have done..all the clubs and parties we have visited, we have never seen anyone use a condom for oral sex..you might be surprised to learn, whereas I believe it is common practise for working girls to use them for oral, unless I'm mistaken of course, comments on this welcome!

On the dogging side, I used to go a lot before I met mrs K and I used to see some scary stuff!! many a time I've seen girls mixing it up with complete strangers full on unprotected sex... A bit of food for thought... Many many male doggers are bi, but will never admit it too their partners (We'll broach a totally new thread on the sticky subject of male bi-ness this week sometime!) If no couples are around many are happy to "do a bit" amongst themselves..then all of a sudden, a couple will show and all of a sudden everyones as straight as a die again LOL..What I'm trying to get at is, all these guys having unprotected sex with this girl...Its a good chance that a good percentage of them also indulge in sex with guys as well

Hope this has been informative to you, we of course will stress again that all opinions are our own, not everyone might share them, alternative views and comments welcome

Kinkypeeps xxxxxxxxxx

PS sorry we're a bit late with part 3 of our diary, we'll finish it in next few days....been extremely busy....we're invited to another party tonight so, we'll have plenty more to write about over next coupla weeks

[LordLuken]

Not something i've indulged in myself, but a very informative insight into the scene. I must admit I'm surprised by some of the things you've mentioned here and it certainly is food for thought.

Thank you kinkypeeps.

[CTR]

Thx again KP really appreciate the time you take to reply & the amount of info you give. And I don't think any of us expect you to cancel your parties to stay in & post here ... It would be interesting to meet you sometime (I mean meet socially as I'm aware that 'meet' has a different meaning for swingers !)

The Circles we move in we know a lot of people extremely well and we tend to stick with who we know, you get to know histories and habits and then I guess we make a personal choice as to wether we do or not or feel its safe or not. We never bareback with complete strangers or single guys we only just met.

OK, I'd have thought that bareback amongst a small group that all know each other well and practice safe(r) sex outside the group isn't any more risky than bareback between a couple that practice safe sex with other partners. But I'd listen to Elaine (conerhouse) on this one of course.

I get more of a kick out of having an active imagination, theres soooo much horny stuff to do without committing to penetrative sex.

Agree with that

whereas I believe it is common practise for working girls to use them for oral, unless I'm mistaken of course, comments on this welcome!

I've only seen indies or agency girls (not parlour girls) & I'd say the majority are usually happy to do oral without - but most do not allow CIM (cum in mouth). My own preference is for oral with (I cannot see the back of a girl's throat) - fortunately I don't have any major probs with condoms (yet!).

I'd say from experience and what we personally see, about 50 per cent always use them and 50 per cent don't, the ones that don't,

Well the next sticky q of course would be how common are STIs among swingers? But prob you or the GUM clinics don't really know the answers ... I guess when people who get one go for treatment they don't say they're a swinger but just say they've had unprotected sex with a stranger at a party etc.

[Hook]

That was an interesting and informative thread.

[Crann]

an interesting thread ,
thanks for the reply kp,

[CTR]

We might have scared them away?

[CTR]

just goes to show what a lot of hipocricts there are out there , as a lot of people knocked ........... for offering that service , and yet the number of times i have been asked for it at the moment stands at about 50% of punters .!!!!!!!

I doubt the guys asking you for bareback are the same guys as those who've posted on this forum that they don't approve of it - or do you know different babyblue? In any case this thread is about bareback among swingers ... which I've heard recently is quite common ...