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hi all
we decided to use this thread as an advice springboard on where to find information and people that swing in Hull.... good work all you guys and gals on starting the Hull adult forum, may this be a successfull and usefull forum for "local people"
Rather than waffle on telling you all about what we know and our personal experiences, we'd like to use this thread to answer any questions any of you may have on starting out, where to look, what you can expect... Trust us there is more going on in Hull than meets the eye.. so please ask away
love Kinkypeeps xxxx
we decided to use this thread as an advice springboard on where to find information and people that swing in Hull.... good work all you guys and gals on starting the Hull adult forum, may this be a successfull and usefull forum for "local people"
Rather than waffle on telling you all about what we know and our personal experiences, we'd like to use this thread to answer any questions any of you may have on starting out, where to look, what you can expect... Trust us there is more going on in Hull than meets the eye.. so please ask away
love Kinkypeeps xxxx
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OK, here's a question but it's more about the forum ... As most members of this forum at the moment are punters, do you think this will put off swingers from posting? I'm not aware of other adult forums with such diversity ... mostly you seem to find punting forums, swinging forums, gay forums etc
PS I've enjoyed reading your other posts ... and it looks like we might soon need board sections for your swinging & dogging reports as well as the sections we have already for punting reports
PS I've enjoyed reading your other posts ... and it looks like we might soon need board sections for your swinging & dogging reports as well as the sections we have already for punting reports
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Hi civic We don't see why not afterall, a forum is only as good as its members and the articles that get posted,its all about the sex wether you pay for it or get it for free. Although we do use mostly swinging websites, its great to find something like this forum for just local people..and get opinions and takes from all sides of the sexual spectrum. We will be certainly telling people we know about this forum and hopefully they will contribute tooCivicTypeR wrote:OK, here's a question but it's more about the forum ... As most members of this forum at the moment are punters, do you think this will put off swingers from posting? I'm not aware of other adult forums with such diversity ... mostly you seem to find punting forums, swinging forums, gay forums etc
PS I've enjoyed reading your other posts ... and it looks like we might soon need board sections for your swinging & dogging reports as well as the sections we have already for punting reports
We also feel that the swinging scene is largely missunderstood as are girls & guys in the general sex industry too...many on the outside looking in tend to forget that we are all thnking feeling souls..and we feel that these forums shine a light on the more human side of our natures.. hence our interest in giving more of an insight and understanding rather than frightening people away
mrs Kinky and I are just normal working class people the wrong side of 40, you wouldn't look at us twice if you passed us shopping in Asda We have no higher education, nor are we supermodels, you'd be surprised at how ordinary and down to earth most of us are. its all a myth that what we do is an excliusive club, its accessible to anyone and everyone with the right frame of mind and attitude....
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its good to see swingers posting , hopefully there are a lot more out there that will get in touch ,
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its posts like this kinkypeeps that restore my belief in the need for a local site to cover all aspects of the adult world in the hull area. and its quotes like the one below that sum up the goal we hope to achieve... non-judgemental respect for whatever consenting adults decide to do in thier sex life
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We also feel that the swinging scene is largely missunderstood as are girls & guys in the general sex industry too...many on the outside looking in tend to forget that we are all thnking feeling souls..and we feel that these forums shine a light on the more human side of our natures.. hence our interest in giving more of an insight and understanding rather than frightening people away
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its great to see kinkypeeps posting and i feel this section of the board will be a very lively one soon
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Agree Suzy – another very valuable post from kinkypeeps & I expect it will get the ball rolling & encourage other like minded couples (or singles?) to post here. And I’m sure that the mods will clamp down on any of the guys here who bombard you with PMs for party invitations ... As one of the more frequent posters on the board I’m very keen for the diversity to work!
But it is less accessible to single or ‘single’ guys because there are so many of us! I will be upfront here & confess a certain amount of envy and fascination ... so you’ll probably find I join in your threads (as I used to with a former indie on this board who posted about swinging) ... unless the mods tell me not to ...kinkypeeps wrote: its all a myth that what we do is an excliusive club, its accessible to anyone and everyone with the right frame of mind and attitude....
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I agree with you there Civic. I personally would like to get more involved in the many aspects of sex that i have never experienced. However, my wife does not appear to share my interest in varied sex, so i would only be able to participate as a single male and would therefore not be welcomed as everything seems geared up for couples only.CivicTypeR wrote:But it is less accessible to single or ‘single’ guys because there are so many of us!
As a member of this board, in the last couple of weeks, i have seen conversations in the chatroom about topics i have not heard of before and would be keen to try if only people would explain more about what is involved. As my signature says, "I will try anything once, more if i like it".
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My first experience of swinging (maybe not technically?) involved a lady who loved sex but her husband was unable but enjoyed watching. I was really nervous but after 15 minutes of chatting over a coffee I was soon relaxed and had a great time. The lady later turned up on one of the forums as an indie (guess without hisband watching!), I don't think she could get enough to satisfy herself on the swinging site! lol
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Thanks for all your kind comments guys, we'll be watching the boards regularly to keep up to speed with all the questions, we can't do it 24-7 what with work and family commitments, so please bear with us if we don't appear for days on endMistermc wrote:My first experience of swinging (maybe not technically?) involved a lady who loved sex but her husband was unable but enjoyed watching. I was really nervous but after 15 minutes of chatting over a coffee I was soon relaxed and had a great time. The lady later turned up on one of the forums as an indie (guess without hisband watching!), I don't think she could get enough to satisfy herself on the swinging site! lol
A lot of you may know of the description of the scenario above, its commonly known as "Cuckolding" and is surprisingly a common subject on the larger swinging sites, we ourselfs know a few couples in which the guy takes no active role and just enjoys watching his wife get sorted out by other strapping lads
Even though we are very active on the local party scene and also frequent various clubs in the North of England, our personal preference is still meeting 1 or 2 people at our home and or theirs every now and again, and we do have a preference for attractive well endowed single guys that have a nice personality rather than a couple, very few guys "cut the mustard" in this department for us.
One thing you will notice, to partially answer a comment made by shyhullmale (Hi!) if you have a look on swinging sites and trawl through adverts and chat rooms..there are 1000's of single guys looking for sex, and yes its bloody difficult to get a foot in the door. Unfortunately the majority ruin it for the minority, its a safe assumption to say that 80 to 90 per cent of guys are married and just looking for a sexual encounter behind the wifes back...if they fall into this category as most do, they won't be taken seriously no matter what they say...the only guys that seem successful at doing this...are the ones that have something that girls or couples want at the time which is..sorry to be blunt...a large cock or really fit and attractive..if they are married and mr average, their chances of meeting couples for sex are very small
Please don't take the above as a personal judgement, its just a personal observation based on our own personal experiences taking on board comments made by many other couples/people we speak to online or meet, we never judge anyone and just take everything at face value
Kinkypeeps xxxx
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hi were in hull i can i go swinging,were do i start.
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im intrested in swinging, mainly because i have a high sex drive, but never been able to find anywhere in hull.(and no this isnt behind the wife's back or anything like that)
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Well fingers crossed will be able to say swinging will be happening at discretion very soon
and hope you and the mrs both come along
and hope you and the mrs both come along
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Hi all xxxx
have to apologise for delay we've just bought a shop and we're working 24-7 to get in up and running and working at normal jobs as well! so please bear with us, normal service will be resumed as soon as poss xxxxxxxxxxxx
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have to apologise for delay we've just bought a shop and we're working 24-7 to get in up and running and working at normal jobs as well! so please bear with us, normal service will be resumed as soon as poss xxxxxxxxxxxx
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nice to see you still popping in KP and good luck with the shop. please feel free to advertise your shop on here in any way you wish..
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M half of cpl here. we are swingers but also use escort services too as mrs is bi.
the mrs wouldnt want to walk through the doors of a brothel im afraid so if anyone else has infor id be greatful. mrs willing to chat on fone to other female if reqd we are gen. seeking house parties hull area.
the mrs wouldnt want to walk through the doors of a brothel im afraid so if anyone else has infor id be greatful. mrs willing to chat on fone to other female if reqd we are gen. seeking house parties hull area.
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Hi All, yes we're still alive and kicking...through one thing and another, we disappeared for a good few months..working 24-7...but now back on the Hull party scene and raring to go. Much news to report on the local scene..events and happenings...so anyone interested, please ask away
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Welcome back kinkypeeps (as you can see there are a few here that need your help )
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nice to see you back hope the business and everything is going smoothlykinkypeeps wrote:Hi All, yes we're still alive and kicking...through one thing and another, we disappeared for a good few months..working 24-7...but now back on the Hull party scene and raring to go. Much news to report on the local scene..events and happenings...so anyone interested, please ask away
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first bit of news....(Don's Trevor McDougal Specs...bong!!) theres a new website started in hull (we met the girls that are running it) as a sort of local resources site for Hull swingers and smut fans and the like..its a new venture in its infancy as yet..they are currently looking for people to star in locally shot 3D movies...they are also looking to organise local parties in a central hotel nearby..they also have an online local shop...so go check it out...www.xxxhull.com
Its in its early days, still ironing out and bunging up stuff....but they need you guys to go support it..so whatya waiting for???
Its in its early days, still ironing out and bunging up stuff....but they need you guys to go support it..so whatya waiting for???
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Even though we are very active on the local party scene and also frequent various clubs in the North of England, our personal preference is still meeting 1 or 2 people at our home and or theirs every now and again, and we do have a preference for attractive well endowed single guys that have a nice personality rather than a couple, very few guys "cut the mustard" in this department for us.
One thing you will notice, to partially answer a comment made by shyhullmale (Hi!) if you have a look on swinging sites and trawl through adverts and chat rooms..there are 1000's of single guys looking for sex, and yes its bloody difficult to get a foot in the door. Unfortunately the majority ruin it for the minority, its a safe assumption to say that 80 to 90 per cent of guys are married and just looking for a sexual encounter behind the wifes back...if they fall into this category as most do, they won't be taken seriously no matter what they say...the only guys that seem successful at doing this...are the ones that have something that girls or couples want at the time which is..sorry to be blunt...a large cock or really fit and attractive..if they are married and mr average, their chances of meeting couples for sex are very small
Hi to everyone.
Have just joined the forum ans reading the posts but I have to agree with kinkypeeps here.
I was the male half of a swinging couple up until recently. We met up with a few guys in that time and there are some out there that spoil it for the genuine guys. I am talking about the ones that meet up and "expect" action first time round and then slate you on the websites. For all the single guys on here, having been on the scene as part of a couple, it is a couple! It is something they have chosen to do together and both must agree and be happy to continue. They set the boundaries and they have a right to say no. It is for his enjoyment as much as the ladies and there are to many single guys who don't respect that and are just looking for cheap thrills. Swining with a couple is about fufilling fantasies, respecting everyones wishes and experiencing something very special and making it very special and pleasurable for the couple, hopefully they in turn will experience the pleasures that they wished for and look at meeting in the future again, but if not it is their choice not yours!
It is so hard as a single male to get back into the scene because there are so many men out there who can put they are 100% genuine on a profile but when it comes down to it they are only thinking of themselves and not the enjoyment and pleasure of the couple and that means both of them!
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One thing you will notice, to partially answer a comment made by shyhullmale (Hi!) if you have a look on swinging sites and trawl through adverts and chat rooms..there are 1000's of single guys looking for sex, and yes its bloody difficult to get a foot in the door. Unfortunately the majority ruin it for the minority, its a safe assumption to say that 80 to 90 per cent of guys are married and just looking for a sexual encounter behind the wifes back...if they fall into this category as most do, they won't be taken seriously no matter what they say...the only guys that seem successful at doing this...are the ones that have something that girls or couples want at the time which is..sorry to be blunt...a large cock or really fit and attractive..if they are married and mr average, their chances of meeting couples for sex are very small
Please don't take the above as a personal judgement, its just a personal observation based on our own personal experiences taking on board comments made by many other couples/people we speak to online or meet, we never judge anyone and just take everything at face value
Hi to everyone,
Having just joined the forum I am reading all the threads etc and had to reply on what kinkypeeps has said.
I was the male half of an early 40''s swinging couple until recently.
Having been part of that couple we met a few guys in that time, the problem being that the minority did spoil it.
Guys, a couple are just that, a couple! It is for them to decide and both be happy with things because it is their fantasy and their wishes you are fufilling, both of them! There are to many single males who either try to be pushy or do not take into account the males feelings in this because they are just out for their own selfish reasons.
It is so easy to put 100% genuine on your profile, you have to prove it.
If a couple agrees to meet and they are both happy to further things, then there are certain things the single male needs to bear in mind.
1) Both of the couple are shown respect at all times.
2) They set the boundaries of what happens.
3) It is their fantasy or pleasure you are fufilling or they are allowing you to fufill.
4) No means no, if you meet up for a drink and one half is happy but the other isn't let them talk it over in private and get back to you. At least you will have had a nice drink and some interesting conversation!
5) If you show the respect and consider the feelings of both you too will get pleasure.
6) Giving them the pleasure that they are desiring will give you pleasure and they may want to meet again.
7) If they don't want to meet again that is thier choice not yours!
8) No means no!
I could go on, but I know exactly what kinkypeeps is saying and it does make it difficult for a single male to carry on in the scene but it also makes it difficult for a couple to trust any single males because of the amount of selfish idiots out there!
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I'm a 31 male who is willing to travel or accomodate. I have always fancied this but my partners never shared my fantasies. So were would one start?? As I get the feeling most want couples or females. Bye the way I've had enough of relationships and am just interested in swinging and who knows what.
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Hello everyone!!
Been a few years now since we last posted on these forums...heavy work and personal commitments..plus all of a sudden found we couldn't log into our own account..so forced early retirement from the forums on to us. We're still in the alternative/swinging lifestyle on a regular basis, ever evolving, goal posts moving etc... We met a friend from this site at a recent party and she remembered our posts of old and they were well remembered by quite a few, especially our "swingers diary" We explained what happened and the reason for our 'disappearance' and she kindly approached the webmaster to gain us access back on here.... In all honesty, the reason we didn't try to hard to return was we wrongly thought that from the lack of replies and responses it wasn't really worth the time and effort anymore...guess we were wrong!.. So!! here we are 2012...raring to go
Please read through our old posts before you ask any questions just to save valuable time..nothing more tedious than constantly answering the same question over and over...obviously will update previous threads we've posted to cover more ground
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Been a few years now since we last posted on these forums...heavy work and personal commitments..plus all of a sudden found we couldn't log into our own account..so forced early retirement from the forums on to us. We're still in the alternative/swinging lifestyle on a regular basis, ever evolving, goal posts moving etc... We met a friend from this site at a recent party and she remembered our posts of old and they were well remembered by quite a few, especially our "swingers diary" We explained what happened and the reason for our 'disappearance' and she kindly approached the webmaster to gain us access back on here.... In all honesty, the reason we didn't try to hard to return was we wrongly thought that from the lack of replies and responses it wasn't really worth the time and effort anymore...guess we were wrong!.. So!! here we are 2012...raring to go
Please read through our old posts before you ask any questions just to save valuable time..nothing more tedious than constantly answering the same question over and over...obviously will update previous threads we've posted to cover more ground
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