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Hi, can anyone gimme some advice as im really confused,i like dressing in lingerie and have fantasies of being feminized by a dominant woman who makes another cd touch/suck me etc. does this make me bi as i consider myself to be straight as i dont generally find men attractive in that way, really confused :/
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come spend an hour with me and kinky peeps then we will let u know for sure lol x x x
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I may take you up on that sometime, im really quite shy and as i said i dont generally find men attractive in that way but theres something about a woman having that power over me making me dress that way and making a cd/t girl do things to me.x
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Hulltaximan wrote:Hi, can anyone gimme some advice as im really confused,i like dressing in lingerie and have fantasies of being feminized by a dominant woman who makes another cd touch/suck me etc. does this make me bi as i consider myself to be straight as i dont generally find men attractive in that way, really confused :/
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and welcome to the boards x there is absolutely nothing to worry about...you are making the mistake many people make..giving yourself a nice little label. I guess we all question our sexuality at some point...its a pointless exercise beating yourself up as there really isn't an easy answer, and why should it really matter, who's even going to know? The fantasy is waaaaay different from the reality trust me on that one. Heres my take on things...its not about the situation, in real life it just isn't that easy..its more about the people you encounter. I've known people adamant that they were as straight as a die..oh i wouldn't do this ..and i wouldn't do that...'.i had an encounter once with a tranny and i hated it' The truth is in my book, they didn't enjoy the encounter WITH THAT PERSON and you can apply that to any sexual scenario. Have come across this many times in the circles we move in..tried bi first, hated it..but then they encountered someone they felt comfortable with and promptly changed their minds...

well anyway...starting to waffle on again...the point is 'straight is just a label' why use it...if it feels good and feels right do it!!

and lastly and more brutally honest...unless you get out there and actively persue this scenario, at clubs, at socials etc etc and not here on t'internet...people are not going to be queuing up offering to 'show you the way' ...and of course the other way and the most easiest way...put your hand in your pocket and use the services some of the lovely girls here offer and i do know one or two that can have a TV in tow for just such scenarios..job done simples!
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room1day wrote:
kinkypeeps wrote: I guess we all question our sexuality at some point...

call me narrow minded...but really !!!!!!
kinkypeeps wrote: I've known people adamant !
you name dropper you !!!!!
Been answering those questions for years...but can never get the ones on sport..Adam? crap shag and looks shit in a frock..but shhhh don't tell everyone
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Thanks for the advise, it all started with an ex who would make me wear her basque etc and then go down on me, she would always tease about blindfolding me and getting her bi friend to do it without me knowing sometime. Maybe when i pluck up the courage il try it with one of the girls on here n see where it goes from there , thanks :)
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i'm new(ish) to the forums
been dressing a long time tho

your ex sounds awsome - i'm well jealous
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She was, all good things come to an end though unfortunately lol
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Would love to meet another girl like her but where do ya find em, its not a subject you'd bring up when first meetiing someone!
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you so need to take the plunge hunnie you will never look back when you do x x x
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I need to get out more and meet people lol x
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have to agree with groovy and kinkypeeps, you will never know if you dont get out there and try, no use just thinking about it, theres only one way to find out for sure.
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Do you have on your lingerie while out in your taxi?
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No i wouldnt dare
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You could pick me up as a Normal fare n I would have a Basque stockings & knickers on under my normal clothes then undress on your back seat.
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Dont be confused...let us help!
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I really need to find an understanding/dominant woman who would make me do things. That and just bite the bullet lol
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Don't we all :-)
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