Tips when seeing an escort?
Posted: Thu Dec 07, 2017 6:15 pm
Ok here we go. First contact:
A phone call. Good, simple communication is imperative. “Hi my name is Bob. Are you available for an in-call/out-call on Tuesday at 8 pm”. No talk about rates, services or anything job related. Be friendly. It is just a woman you are speaking to. She is not a god damn sexual Tyrannosauros
If it is an in-call text the escort at least 1 hour before. I give it 2. “Hi *insert sexy escort name here* are we still ok for 6.00pm?”. An out-call the escort will text you.
Ok communication out the way, now you meet the escort. Treat her like any other woman you meet from day to day. On an in-call the escort will tend to be dressed in sexy lingerie. Don't let that phase you. This is just the escort's suit and tie. Smile. Make eye contact. The escort may hug and kiss you or she may just shake hands.
Payment. In the UK it is generally payed up front, not long after you have entered the apartment. Hand over to the escort the money in an envelope. She may leave the room to count it and put it somewhere safe. If you are a trusted regular she will probably just put it to one side.
Ok I cannot overstate this but just be yourself. If you are acting and being overly ‘nice' the escort will see through this and see it as a form of manipulation. The escort will firmly stay in escort mode and be on her guard. But If you are honest, genuine, fun and respectful the escort will be the same. You can then both be a lot more relaxed. You will enjoy yourself more and the escort will enjoy herself.
Ok this may sound obvious but you will be surprised. Be clean. I know it's not a date as such but treat it that way. Remember you are more than likely going to get sexually intimite so scrub every part of your body in the shower. Dress nice. Make an effort because that is what the escort does.
DON'T ask the escort personal questions, especially about her job and life. If she wants to reveal any personal information she will do. Take this as a compliment as it means she trusts you. You are more than likely going to be nervous but just make everyday conversation. Let the escort know you are nervous and she will be understanding and do her best to get rid of your nerves. A good escort will carry the convesation. She will ask about you without being too personal.
Gifts. They are not needed. Unless you are seeing a sugar baby. You could buy a $10,000 dollar piece of jewellary but you not staying longer than the time you have payed for. I bought a gift once but it was something I did as a genuine heart felt gesture. I went to see the escort the day after valentines day. She showed me a dozen red roses she had bought herself from the supermarket. I was surprised no clients had bought her any flowers. My next meeting with her, I took her an orchid and said “you should not have to buy your own flowers”. That is the only time I have bought a gift but I was also a bit in love with said escort. That is a different story.
Those are my tips. Above all have fun and be respectful, kind and loving to the escort you meet, like you would any woman. You will get to meet some very lovely, genuine and demonstrative women. You will get escorts who never step out of escort mode and they can use manipulation techniques to keep you as a regular. You will learn to recognise this behaviour. The escort tends to be overly upbeat and will laugh at your crap jokes. On those occassions just be on your guard. Continue being yourself but just take what she says with a pinch of salt. In time you will learn what is real affection, from the escort and what is simulated.
A phone call. Good, simple communication is imperative. “Hi my name is Bob. Are you available for an in-call/out-call on Tuesday at 8 pm”. No talk about rates, services or anything job related. Be friendly. It is just a woman you are speaking to. She is not a god damn sexual Tyrannosauros
If it is an in-call text the escort at least 1 hour before. I give it 2. “Hi *insert sexy escort name here* are we still ok for 6.00pm?”. An out-call the escort will text you.
Ok communication out the way, now you meet the escort. Treat her like any other woman you meet from day to day. On an in-call the escort will tend to be dressed in sexy lingerie. Don't let that phase you. This is just the escort's suit and tie. Smile. Make eye contact. The escort may hug and kiss you or she may just shake hands.
Payment. In the UK it is generally payed up front, not long after you have entered the apartment. Hand over to the escort the money in an envelope. She may leave the room to count it and put it somewhere safe. If you are a trusted regular she will probably just put it to one side.
Ok I cannot overstate this but just be yourself. If you are acting and being overly ‘nice' the escort will see through this and see it as a form of manipulation. The escort will firmly stay in escort mode and be on her guard. But If you are honest, genuine, fun and respectful the escort will be the same. You can then both be a lot more relaxed. You will enjoy yourself more and the escort will enjoy herself.
Ok this may sound obvious but you will be surprised. Be clean. I know it's not a date as such but treat it that way. Remember you are more than likely going to get sexually intimite so scrub every part of your body in the shower. Dress nice. Make an effort because that is what the escort does.
DON'T ask the escort personal questions, especially about her job and life. If she wants to reveal any personal information she will do. Take this as a compliment as it means she trusts you. You are more than likely going to be nervous but just make everyday conversation. Let the escort know you are nervous and she will be understanding and do her best to get rid of your nerves. A good escort will carry the convesation. She will ask about you without being too personal.
Gifts. They are not needed. Unless you are seeing a sugar baby. You could buy a $10,000 dollar piece of jewellary but you not staying longer than the time you have payed for. I bought a gift once but it was something I did as a genuine heart felt gesture. I went to see the escort the day after valentines day. She showed me a dozen red roses she had bought herself from the supermarket. I was surprised no clients had bought her any flowers. My next meeting with her, I took her an orchid and said “you should not have to buy your own flowers”. That is the only time I have bought a gift but I was also a bit in love with said escort. That is a different story.
Those are my tips. Above all have fun and be respectful, kind and loving to the escort you meet, like you would any woman. You will get to meet some very lovely, genuine and demonstrative women. You will get escorts who never step out of escort mode and they can use manipulation techniques to keep you as a regular. You will learn to recognise this behaviour. The escort tends to be overly upbeat and will laugh at your crap jokes. On those occassions just be on your guard. Continue being yourself but just take what she says with a pinch of salt. In time you will learn what is real affection, from the escort and what is simulated.